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Ben’s grades

I am REALLY impressed with Ben’s recent grades.  He brought home a midterm progress report, so granted: its not an actual report card.  But there were five subjects and each subjects had four different categories like:

  • Academic scores
  • Class participation
  • etc

So that’s twenty total categories.  Ben got the very highest grade in 19 out of 20!!  There was one missing assignment which Ben could account for.  It was like getting a 3.95 GPA!!  HOLY TOLEDO!!

In January I had gotten a call from his teachers - they wanted me to come in and talk with all four of them about Ben’s lack of progress.  It was disheartening to sit there listening to all of his teachers complain that he wasn’t doing work and wasn’t participating in class.  Across the board it was the same in each of his classes.  They all liked him and knew he could do much better.

His home-room teacher has a reputation for being a real battle-axe.   Ben said she was mean.  One of the sweetest girls I know said she was awful  I also heard from a couple of other parents about how tough and unreasonable she was.  And in my meeting with all the teachers she didn’t really seem interested.  I got the impression she thought they were going to too much effort for Ben.  This woman wrote on the science section of his report: “High interest, High aptitude! :)”  (note the smiley-face)  I was thrilled!  He had managed to impress the battle-axe and completely changed her opinion of him.

Since I had that meeting with his teachers I have been checking Ben’s homework every night - not so much for content as for completeness.  Since I was looking it over anyway, I would spot-check his math and whatnot, but mostly I was reviewing it to make sure it was done and that his agenda was filled out so he would know what to do.  He wasn’t allowed on a computer or the Wii until I checked it, which meant he had all afternoon, every day, with no electronic games.

It totally worked.  I have to give Ben full credit for turning himself around.  What a great kid!  His previous report card was good, but he had gotten a low grade because he neglected to do a project.  After I saw this report I told him that i didn’t need to see his daily homework anymore but that if he ever brought home another report card like the one with the C’s (and worse) that we would go back to me getting involved in his homework.

So four gold-stars to Ben for excellent academic achievement!

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quick rundown on what’s new

So spring is really here. I know that in some parts of the country spring has been abundantly present for MONTHS. Not in Boston. Ok, weeks, maybe.

In any case, we’ve had some warm weather which has sparked some enthusiasm for getting the hell out of the house and doing something outside. Preferably “active”.

Last week I had a strong urge to get the GPS and go geocaching up in Rockport, MA. Then I remembered my kids and thought it might be fun to get everyone on a bicycle and see how we do on the dirt roads of the state forests while we geocache. I haven’t done it yet, but the kids will love it! Grace needs some more work, though. She’s still a little new to the whole two-wheel-thing. So maybe she and I can go alone sometime when I can focus just on her without worrying about the others.

I also went camping with Gabe a few weeks ago and that whetted my appetite for a GOOD camping trip – because that one was almost washed out.

I’m also interested in finishing an electronics project to make a model rocket launch-control unit. I have all the parts, of which there aren’t many. I just need to slap them all together.

Dogs – I need to get back to training them so they behave a little better in public. Every time they see another dog they go (pardon me) absolutely ape-shit barking and helping. Its embarrassing. So I need to take them out one at a time and spend some quality time with them.

But I can’t do any of this tonight. Tonight I agreed to take the family out to dinner.

So all that will have to wait.

The weekend was super busy. We spent most of Saturday getting ready for our evening-party. It rained all night on Friday so we let the yard dry out most of the day and did some associated errands. We wound up with about 40 people coming over for hot dogs and hamburgers. As planned, I turned on the video of the Bon Jovi concert around 7:45pm. All of our younger guests completely ignored it and chased each other all over the yard in some kind of miniature capture-the-flag event. The adults continued to talk and enjoyed themselves. We handed out Glow-pops with LED’s in them which I have to admit looked pretty awesome in the dark. We had also bought 100 glow-necklaces at ebay for a good price. $0.25 each. So when it got dark we had all kinds of kids rampaging across the backyard. There were maybe four kindergartners, a dozen 9 or 10 year olds and probably another seven kids who were 12 years or older. I was amazed at how well they all got along. The younger kids LOVED staying up late and playing with the older kids. The older kids didn’t knock any (or very few) younger kids over.

All in all, the party was an unmitigated success.

Sunday was spent cleaning up and recovering from all the work that went in to the party. I had forgotten how much work a backyard party was. Whew! The dogs still aren’t over it. I think Peterman ate two hamburgers while Bucky seemed to focus more on the hotdogs that kids left behind.

So, now everything is back to normal. I should really start cleaning out the store room – it’s a mess in there. I also need to get a new lawn mower – my old one bit the dust mere moments after finishing the backyard.

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How to make a Physical Gmail

How to make a Physical Gmail Notifier at j4mie dot org

GreenCube

I’m still interested in virtual events from the internet producing physical events.  Like the arrival of new mail triggering a glowing cube.  I am considering what other kind of cool reactions I can set up to virtual events.  i read where one person had set up some kind of alert so that when something happened in their Second Life game, they would be notified with some kind of physical notification.

I dig it.

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Carbonite

I continue to use Carbonite as my backup solution at home.  The deal is that they will backup EVERYTHING you have for a meager $5 a month.  They actually gave it to me for less than that this time around.  It was closer to $3.33.  In any case, I have GIGABYTES … many GIGABYTES stored with them.  It backs up new or changed files in the directories I specify.  it copies them off to some remote site on the internet from whence I can fetch it whenever I want.

Its come in handy once or twice and I am VERY happy with it.

So this is an official plug for Carbonite.

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I just want to live comfortably in Dubai

Jimmy Fallon formally named next Late Night host | Entertainment | Reuters

Deja Vu

Remember how in March it was a big deal for me to take Liz to see Bon Jovi at Mohegan Sun (casino in CT)?

Bon Jovi recently announced that they would be playing two shows in July here in Boston at the TD BankNorth Garden just before they finish their tour.

I can’t even believe I am doing this.

I got six tickets at a pre-sale event this morning.  I am taking the wife and my FOUR (count them: Ben, Gabe, Chloe and Grace) FOUR kids to see Bon Jovi.  I don’t know how I let Liz talk me in to this.  I think I am a giant push-over.

These people owe me for this.

So we got six tickets, but they aren’t very good seats.  When they go on sale for the general release - I want to try again and get better seats.  We’re in the balcony (section 301).  I think it shouldn’t be too hard to sell the current set I have now if something better comes along later.  If you go to this webiste, you can put in section 301 and it should show you what kind of view we’re looking at.

The customer service rep. I talked to initially said there was nothing for six people together, except for behind the stage. 

“But its not like you won’t be able to see from there.” he said reassuringly.

“Yeah, as a matter of fact, its JUST like I won’t be able to see from there!” I responded hotly.

He was ticking me off.  He was trying to get me to buy tickets BEHIND the flipping stage and trying to sell them as if they were just as good as being IN FRONT of the stage.  I referred to it as “the proper side of the stage” as opposed to “the-ass-end of the stage”.

dumbass.

Anwyay, we have tickets and the little woman is resting easier now.  Still, I wonder if I can talk someone else in to going instead of me.

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Busy weekend

It was another busy weekend starting with Friday night.  In the end we managed to test out the projector and screen for next weekend’s big event.  The bad news is that the screen stinks.  The tarp has a brown side and a reflective (solar-ish) silver side.  I thought the silver side would be GREAT.  It turns out that plastic tarps just have too many tiny wrinkles and facets to produce a good quality image.  So I have to come up with an alternative.  We tested out the screen with The Princess Bride on saturday night.

A neighbor-friend, who is a professional set-designer helped me figure everything out and even did some sewing - that is he sewed the bottom of the screen in to a kind of pocket to hold some weights to keep the tarp from fluttering in the breeze.  Thoughtful and helpful guy.

We also had Mother’s Day on Sunday.  Me and the kids went to Panera bread and brought home virtually one of all of their pastries.  We also picked up flowers from her favorite florist.  On Friday I took the kids to the mall and gave them each $10 for a present from Bath and Body Works.  I threw in one of those acrylic massage tools.

We also went to the Adams House national historic site - home/birthplace of John Adams and John Quincy Adams.  It was more enjoyable than I expected and the kids were GREAT!  I can imagine that they might have thought it was pretty dull, but they sure didn’t let on.  They did great and deserve their props.  Sure, we got a little lost in Quincy, MA but what kind of road trip would it be if found it on the first try!

Gabe and Ben attended a birthday party while Grace played T-Ball and I spent some time rummaging around Home Depot looking for building supplies.

My favorite weekends are the ones where we get a lot of work done and have a lot of fun.  So this was a pretty good one.

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Busy evening

We’re starting to get ready for a backyard birthday party for Chloe.  I’m sure I’ve mentioned it before, but now we’re getting down to brass tacks and getting things ready to roll.

Last night I mowed the grass for the first time this year.  It was lush thick and green and my mower chopped it to shreds.  The blade needed to be replaced, so afterwards I went over to Sears for a new blade.  I also stopped by Radio Shack to get a new video cable.  See, the DVD-player that I got for $25 from craigslist has a broken blue port for the video-component connection.  So everything is pink.  Although it won’t produce as crisp an image, the S-video cable will have to do.  I also zipped through Home Depot for some of that repair-oriented grass seed for some ugly patches in the back & front yards.

I patched those sections when I got home and tested out the s-video cable.  By then it was 8pm and I was pooped.

I have figured out how I want to make the screen frame.  I plan on spending saturday building it.  Gabe has a birthday party for one of his buddies over at LaserQuest on Saturday afternoon.  So I will drop him off while I pick up a bunch of this rubber mulch stuff I’ve been using under the swing set.  I think it will look really great for the party.

I still need to use the trimmer and clean up all rest of the yard.  That still leaves another, like 10 days until the event so I will have to mow again before our soiree.

I’ve also been spending a lot of my recent evenings taking care of work.  An hour for one group and an hour for another.  A little bit here and there isn’t much but when you group it all together I haven’t had a lot of free time.

Work work work.

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Camping in the rain

Yes, on Saturday morning Gabriel and I went to Camp Massasssoit in Plymouth, MA.  Overall the event went much better than I thought it would.  As you may know I had low expectations to start with, but none of my concerns were warranted.  Everything I was worried about was addressed.  We got a good camp site which made a huge difference.  Gabriel got to shoot bows-and-arrows until his arms ached.    The downside was that it rained all weekend.  The kids and the adults all handled it with far more grace than I would have expected.  Sure, there was complaining, but for the most part it was in a good natured way.  Like when people say “How about this heat?” - its more about a shared discomfort than actual anger or frustration.

The drive wasn’t bad - we listened to music of his choosing and the time passed quickly.  We got there around 9am and immediately set up camp.  We got a good location - flat and relatively close to the fire (20′ - 30′).  There were picnic tables and the rest of Gabe’s Den set up around us.

We had some lunch and Gabriel did some whittling and some exploring.  By noon-time we had to go to the opening ceremonies.  Gabe had already completed all of his advancement requirements, so he asked if he could go to the archery range instead.

Gee, should we ignore the carefully planned itinerary (Outdoorsman, Archery. BB-guns and paddleboat)?  Normally I make the kids follow every one of the rules, especially schedules.  But this time I decided that Gabe should get an opportunity to have fun - a lot of it.  So we tried to sneak in to Archery two hours early and succeeded!  Basically, Gabe shot arrows all afternoon.  He did zip over to the BB-range a couple of times, but it turns out that he’s pretty bad at that and couldn’t even hit the target.  Everyone has things they are good at and things they aren’t.

But it rained all day.  Well, there were a couple of hours where it stopped.  But mostly it was varying degrees of drizzle with 42 degree weather.  An hour or two of that isn’t so bad, but after eight or ten hours of being in it the cold and wet has a way of sapping the strength and warmth from a person.  There was a cold breeze near the lake at the archery range that could really suck the heat out of a person!  Gabe and I were prepared for it, but its hard to keep that cold from seeping in to your bones, you know?

At some point the adults and I decided we needed a tarp to cover our picnic tables so we could have somewhere to huddle if the rain kept up.  We imagined that even if we could get a fire going, it would be miserable trying to eat a foil dinner with rain dripping off our noses.  Since someone else had parked so I couldn’t extract my own vehicle I got someone else to give me a list 25 minutes away to the local home depot where I bought a nice heavy duty tarp.  we strung it up over our picnic table in short order and that kept the rain away for the rest of the day.  In the end the tarp didn’t actually do us any good, but in fact, just having it up lifted our spirits which had started to sag because of all the rain.

Dinner turned out great.  The kids LOVED the foil dinners.  The camp delivered charcoal to every campsite and the rain held off so we could cook some decent food.  Additionally people had brought things from home in a potluck fashion.  Chicken Skewers, pasta salad, veggie-skewers.  I brought corn-on-the-cob and hamburger-bun pizzas that were going to be made in the dutch oven.  The corn went over GREAT.  The foil dinners were VERY popular.  By then nobody seemed interested in the litle hamburger bun pizzas so I left them alone.

There was a campfire with singing and skits, which is typical and virtually mandatory at scout campouts.  It got cold so Gabe wanted to head back to the warm campfire.  We enjoyed its warmth and the good company for about 30 minutes before Gabe said he was tired and wanted to go to bed. 

He slept like a rock.  I don’t know how he slept through all the helicopters that kept buzzing the camp.  There was some kind of night-training at the nearby national guard location and during the night flight after flight of helicopters flew by. 

It must have been very tricky flying through the torrential downpours that came through at about midnight.  It made a lot of racket on the tent, but otherwise didn’t bother us.  After an hour it died down to a gentle bone-chilling drizzle again.  I managed to sleep for 20 or 30 minutes at a time, but I kept waking up.  It was an awful sleepless night for me.  I wasn’t cold but I couldn’t get comfortable.

And it turned out that the rain got between my ground-cloth and my tent and soaked the floor of my tent.  But only on my side.  My mattress pad got very wet and so did some clothes that were on the floor of the tent, but everything else seemed ok.

Waking up in the cold and damp is a miserable chore.  Fortunately I was motivated by a very full bladder to haul myself in to my shoes and clothes.  My back… oy!  No wonder the little woman doesn’t like sleeping on the ground!

While some other sat around a campfire sipping instant coffee I packed up our gear.  after breakfast at 8am we loaded up and bolted for home.  We picked up some proper coffee a pastry at a dunkin donuts and cruised home in silence.

You would think that after a rough night like we had that it would have been awful.  But it wasn’t.  Don’t get me wrong, I hated not sleeping and being uncomfortable, but it wasn’t that bad.  In the end, Gabe didn’t seem to put out by the cold weather.  Everyone’s spirits stayed remarkably high and I think everyone had a good time. 

Knowing how the event would turn out, would I go back and do it again?  In a heartbeat.  Sure.  I hope its something that sticks with Gabe as fond memories.

Oh and Sunday I spent loafing and dozing on the sofa.  I put away the big things and tossed some stuff in the washer and dryer.  But mostly I rested.  I feel much better this morning.

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Weekend activities

  1. Gabriel and I are going on his last camping trip as a scout.  He doesn’t seem interested in going on to boy scouts so I think this weekend will wrap it up.  We leave on Saturday morning for Camp Massassoit for an event called Webelos in the Woods.  Its really more of an “Intro to Camping” event and Gabriel has already earned all the badges that they will be offering.  What he hasn’t done much of is archery and BB guns.  He’s very excited about both.  Last time I wanted to show him everything they had to offer including fishing and a confidence course and all the badge-stations.  This time?  I’m going to let him do whatever he wants and will just stay out of his way and let him enjoy this.  We come back on Sunday morning.
  2. One of Grace’s friends invited the remaining kids to a birthday party at some kind of indoor inflatable playground.  You’ve seen those moon-bounce things you can rent?  Its a whole warehouse of these things and they run birthday parties.  I can’t say I’m sorry that I will miss that. 
  3. I think there’s a t-ball game, too.
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